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	<title>Comments on: Is that a Helicopter? No, it&#8217;s just me</title>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
		<link>http://mymessyparadise.com/2009/08/is-that-a-helicopter-no-its-just-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1346</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 04:08:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Bat shit crazy&quot; - I love it!  And I love this post.  I totally agree with you.  I do what makes me comfortable with my daughter and people think I am controlling or overbearing.  Oh well.  And you&#039;re right, it only takes them off the babysitting list.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Bat shit crazy&#8221; &#8211; I love it!  And I love this post.  I totally agree with you.  I do what makes me comfortable with my daughter and people think I am controlling or overbearing.  Oh well.  And you&#8217;re right, it only takes them off the babysitting list.<br />
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		<title>By: Maria  @BOREDmommy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria  @BOREDmommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Sep 2009 05:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have never heard the term Helicopter Mom before, but I am definitely that Mom. I have to be because my husband is the exact opposite - at least one of us has to be neurotic enough to keep the kids safe, and that falls on me. I won&#039;t apologize for it. It can be tiring to keep up though, don&#039;t you think?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have never heard the term Helicopter Mom before, but I am definitely that Mom. I have to be because my husband is the exact opposite &#8211; at least one of us has to be neurotic enough to keep the kids safe, and that falls on me. I won&#8217;t apologize for it. It can be tiring to keep up though, don&#8217;t you think?<br />
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		<title>By: Theta Mom</title>
		<link>http://mymessyparadise.com/2009/08/is-that-a-helicopter-no-its-just-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1186</link>
		<dc:creator>Theta Mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 10:13:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a helicopter mom, too. We&#039;ll probably have our own airport soon!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a helicopter mom, too. We&#8217;ll probably have our own airport soon!<br />
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		<title>By: Sara @ Domestically Challenged</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara @ Domestically Challenged</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 03:02:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was the same way! what can we do? They are our little ones and we have to protect them, right? Right?!?!?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was the same way! what can we do? They are our little ones and we have to protect them, right? Right?!?!?<br />
<span class="cluv"> Sara @ Domestically Challenged´s last blog ..<a href="http://tramm-isms.blogspot.com/2009/08/elijahs-musings.html" rel="nofollow">Elijah&#8217;s Musings</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: blueviolet</title>
		<link>http://mymessyparadise.com/2009/08/is-that-a-helicopter-no-its-just-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1183</link>
		<dc:creator>blueviolet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 00:15:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You do realize that we all thought you were normal until you just spilled the beans with this post, don&#039;t you?  ;)
.-= blueviolet´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.anutinanutshell.com/2009/08/heres-what-my-monday-looks-like.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Here&#039;s What My Monday Looks Like&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You do realize that we all thought you were normal until you just spilled the beans with this post, don&#8217;t you?  <img src='http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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		<title>By: Danielle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danielle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey - who&#039;s making fun of you!?  Let me know and I&#039;ll knock &#039;em out!  :)   We live and learn.  We&#039;re all like that, especially with our first.  And anyone who tells you they aren&#039;t nervous with their first (and sometimes their second third and fourths) is a liar.     I wouldn&#039;t use you as one of my &quot;go-to&quot; mom&#039;s if I thought you were too far over the top.  Careful and cautious, yes, but over the top, no.  I definitely feel more comfortable the second time around but I am trying to balance it a little more with still watching out for them - as a clutzy person, I don&#039;t want my kids to go through the same pain I do but I also can&#039;t put them in a bubble so it&#039;s a balance.   And yes my friend, you still need a gate with a 2 year old.  It doesn&#039;t mean you don&#039;t let them walk up and down the stairs, it just means you&#039;re with them when they do it!    You know where to tell those people to go!  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey &#8211; who&#8217;s making fun of you!?  Let me know and I&#8217;ll knock &#8216;em out!  <img src='http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />    We live and learn.  We&#8217;re all like that, especially with our first.  And anyone who tells you they aren&#8217;t nervous with their first (and sometimes their second third and fourths) is a liar.     I wouldn&#8217;t use you as one of my &#8220;go-to&#8221; mom&#8217;s if I thought you were too far over the top.  Careful and cautious, yes, but over the top, no.  I definitely feel more comfortable the second time around but I am trying to balance it a little more with still watching out for them &#8211; as a clutzy person, I don&#8217;t want my kids to go through the same pain I do but I also can&#8217;t put them in a bubble so it&#8217;s a balance.   And yes my friend, you still need a gate with a 2 year old.  It doesn&#8217;t mean you don&#8217;t let them walk up and down the stairs, it just means you&#8217;re with them when they do it!    You know where to tell those people to go!  <img src='http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer @ It's A Beauty Filled Life</title>
		<link>http://mymessyparadise.com/2009/08/is-that-a-helicopter-no-its-just-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1181</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer @ It's A Beauty Filled Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 18:27:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wait, I haven&#039;t even told you how much I like the new look and header! :-)</description>
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		<title>By: Jennifer @ It's A Beauty Filled Life</title>
		<link>http://mymessyparadise.com/2009/08/is-that-a-helicopter-no-its-just-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1180</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer @ It's A Beauty Filled Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 18:27:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, then, call me a helicopter, too! LOL!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, then, call me a helicopter, too! LOL!</p>
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		<title>By: Laurie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laurie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 17:57:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am overly cautious in some areas and lax in others...we are the parents &amp; there is no other worse feeling when an accident happens....I have been to the ER with Ben twice so far...NOT FUN!!  I get teased about the fact that my boys are 6 &amp; 4, my oldest has only been left w/someone other than my husband or I 4 times!  My younger one has never been left with anyone, until preschool this morning...we just have adjusted our lives to that....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am overly cautious in some areas and lax in others&#8230;we are the parents &amp; there is no other worse feeling when an accident happens&#8230;.I have been to the ER with Ben twice so far&#8230;NOT FUN!!  I get teased about the fact that my boys are 6 &amp; 4, my oldest has only been left w/someone other than my husband or I 4 times!  My younger one has never been left with anyone, until preschool this morning&#8230;we just have adjusted our lives to that&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Lady Mama</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lady Mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 17:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m like that too. I anticipate every tiny thing. I imagine the worst in all scenarios. My husband&#039;s family think I&#039;m overly cautious, but I don&#039;t care. I&#039;m about to start baby proofing my house for my baby who&#039;s nearly crawling. Argh here we go again.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m like that too. I anticipate every tiny thing. I imagine the worst in all scenarios. My husband&#8217;s family think I&#8217;m overly cautious, but I don&#8217;t care. I&#8217;m about to start baby proofing my house for my baby who&#8217;s nearly crawling. Argh here we go again.<br />
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