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		<title>By: Lydia, Clueless Crafter</title>
		<link>http://mymessyparadise.com/2009/10/be-afraid-be-very-afraid/comment-page-1/#comment-1832</link>
		<dc:creator>Lydia, Clueless Crafter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 21:54:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Scary Mommy, I&#039;m learning how to deal by talking it out!  Sometimes I may offer insight; sometimes I may be so way off the mark about motherhood.  I was raised by my father while my mom worked.  She found motherhood super scary and she admitted it to me in my adulthood.  Work was easier for her!
.-= Lydia, Clueless Crafter´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/cluelesscrafter/~3/G8BnsAQlemU/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;HouseCraft: Illuminate Your World from the Inside Out&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scary Mommy, I&#8217;m learning how to deal by talking it out!  Sometimes I may offer insight; sometimes I may be so way off the mark about motherhood.  I was raised by my father while my mom worked.  She found motherhood super scary and she admitted it to me in my adulthood.  Work was easier for her!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Lydia, Clueless Crafter´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/cluelesscrafter/~3/G8BnsAQlemU/" rel="nofollow">HouseCraft: Illuminate Your World from the Inside Out</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Scary Mommy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scary Mommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 21:05:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I worry about EVERYTHING too. How I wish I had appreciate those worry free days before I had children. It&#039;s just never, ever the same! Motherhood is the scariest thing ever.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I worry about EVERYTHING too. How I wish I had appreciate those worry free days before I had children. It&#8217;s just never, ever the same! Motherhood is the scariest thing ever.</p>
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		<title>By: uberVU - social comments</title>
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		<dc:creator>uberVU - social comments</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 20:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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This post was mentioned on Twitter by MyMessyParadise: New post on My Messy Paradise Be afraid. Be very afraid. http://bit.ly/3xZRJF:...</description>
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<p>This post was mentioned on Twitter by MyMessyParadise: New post on My Messy Paradise Be afraid. Be very afraid. <a href="http://bit.ly/3xZRJF:.." rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/3xZRJF:..</a>.</p>
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		<title>By: Loukia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Loukia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 19:46:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This was an awesome, real, honest and totally relatable post. I loved reading this. I am like you in SO many ways. We are all &#039;scary mommies&#039; but you know what? That makes you a great mom, too. Loved this post!!
.-= Loukia´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://loulousviews.blogspot.com/2009/10/whole-new-world.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A whole new world&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was an awesome, real, honest and totally relatable post. I loved reading this. I am like you in SO many ways. We are all &#8216;scary mommies&#8217; but you know what? That makes you a great mom, too. Loved this post!!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Loukia´s last blog ..<a href="http://loulousviews.blogspot.com/2009/10/whole-new-world.html" rel="nofollow">A whole new world</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Tami</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tami</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 18:53:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well you sound like me lol.  I love your blog.  I love it so much that I just gave you an award.  Please stop by.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well you sound like me lol.  I love your blog.  I love it so much that I just gave you an award.  Please stop by.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Tami´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/HeartsMakeFamilies/~3/VulRUhJ6ZSA/coming-down-aisle-is.html" rel="nofollow">Coming Down the Aisle Is</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Laurie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laurie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:31:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree...Camden is 4, has never been left w/ anyone except me &amp; Dan, but now the past 2 mos preschool, THATS IT!  Not even my mom has watched him alone...I can count 3 times Ben, 6, has been left with someone other than us &amp; school!!  I work my schedule around my kids &amp; don&#039;t feel the need to go out without them.  I try to do all my errands by myself or with 1, the EVIL younger one, cause I know its more of a stresser workout with both.....PLUS mine love to play.....nothing better to me than an afternoon outside while my boys play &amp; I can choose to do some yardwork or just plop in a chair &amp; read while they enjoy themselves....HOUSEWORK can wait!!  

Many a night we have quick-n-easy meals w/ a veggie &amp; fruit along side, everyone is happy!  Thats all that matters!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree&#8230;Camden is 4, has never been left w/ anyone except me &amp; Dan, but now the past 2 mos preschool, THATS IT!  Not even my mom has watched him alone&#8230;I can count 3 times Ben, 6, has been left with someone other than us &amp; school!!  I work my schedule around my kids &amp; don&#8217;t feel the need to go out without them.  I try to do all my errands by myself or with 1, the EVIL younger one, cause I know its more of a stresser workout with both&#8230;..PLUS mine love to play&#8230;..nothing better to me than an afternoon outside while my boys play &amp; I can choose to do some yardwork or just plop in a chair &amp; read while they enjoy themselves&#8230;.HOUSEWORK can wait!!  </p>
<p>Many a night we have quick-n-easy meals w/ a veggie &amp; fruit along side, everyone is happy!  Thats all that matters!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Lydia, Clueless Crafter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lydia, Clueless Crafter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:21:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know if I&#039;m out of line for feeling connected to the stories -fact and fiction- of motherhood, but I am.  I listen to all the planning ahead anxiety, the not wanting to take 2 kids out at once etc and I&#039;ve found that I&#039;m that way now AND I don&#039;t even HAVE kids yet!  I guess I&#039;m trying to see all that is involved so that I can prepare myself.

We  have been talking kids recently.  My husband said something that struck me so he could test my readiness for kiddies.  He said that I should &quot;realize that having children doesn&#039;t mean you can have all the attention anymore.&quot;  

Frightening, yet exhilarating, right?!
.-= Lydia, Clueless Crafter´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/cluelesscrafter/~3/G8BnsAQlemU/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;HouseCraft: Illuminate Your World from the Inside Out&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m out of line for feeling connected to the stories -fact and fiction- of motherhood, but I am.  I listen to all the planning ahead anxiety, the not wanting to take 2 kids out at once etc and I&#8217;ve found that I&#8217;m that way now AND I don&#8217;t even HAVE kids yet!  I guess I&#8217;m trying to see all that is involved so that I can prepare myself.</p>
<p>We  have been talking kids recently.  My husband said something that struck me so he could test my readiness for kiddies.  He said that I should &#8220;realize that having children doesn&#8217;t mean you can have all the attention anymore.&#8221;  </p>
<p>Frightening, yet exhilarating, right?!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Lydia, Clueless Crafter´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/cluelesscrafter/~3/G8BnsAQlemU/" rel="nofollow">HouseCraft: Illuminate Your World from the Inside Out</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer @ It's A Beauty Filled Life</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer @ It's A Beauty Filled Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 05:41:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>But how can anyone NOT be controlling? We&#039;re the protectors of our babes! We must! Scary Mommies, UNITE! ;-)
.-= Jennifer @ It&#039;s A Beauty Filled Life´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/itsabeautyfilledlife/ajwx/~3/yf-8tDDgIQs/top-ten-thursday-they-dont-call-em.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Top Ten Thursday – They Don’t Call ‘Em Crackberries For Nothin’&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But how can anyone NOT be controlling? We&#8217;re the protectors of our babes! We must! Scary Mommies, UNITE! <img src='http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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		<title>By: LizzB</title>
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		<dc:creator>LizzB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 03:07:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do the run errands with only ONE thing too. The mere thought of taking them all to the grocery with me makes me want to shave my head with a cheese grater.
.-= LizzB´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/DIOc/~3/2ewAh4pm7-8/motherhood-is-scary.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Motherhood Is Scary&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do the run errands with only ONE thing too. The mere thought of taking them all to the grocery with me makes me want to shave my head with a cheese grater.<br />
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		<title>By: Sara @ Domestically Challenged</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara @ Domestically Challenged</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 02:33:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You sound perfect to me! I am always the last one everywhere too!
.-= Sara @ Domestically Challenged´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tramm-isms.blogspot.com/2009/10/top-10-thursday_21.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Top 10 Thursday&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You sound perfect to me! I am always the last one everywhere too!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Sara @ Domestically Challenged´s last blog ..<a href="http://tramm-isms.blogspot.com/2009/10/top-10-thursday_21.html" rel="nofollow">Top 10 Thursday</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://mymessyparadise.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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